Best-Selling Author & Success Coach Hueina Su to Speak at ZeroPoint Global Conference

Best-selling author, success coach, and star of  self-help movie “The Keeper of the Keys” Hueina Su is the featured keynote speaker at ZeroPoint Global Conference. The annual convention themed “Molding The Future” for business leaders, consultants and practitioners is held Feb. 7-9, 2012 in Dallas, Texas.

ZeroPoint Global is a world leader in alternative health and preventative wellness solutions helping millions of people re-discover their inner energy source by harnessing the latest advances in ZeroPoint technology and energy medicine. For more information about the company and conference, visit http://www.hsu.zeropointglobal.com.

Hueina Su, MS, BSN, CEC, is a mindful wellness and women’s empowerment expert, international keynote speaker, certified life coach, and the best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others and the upcoming Peaceful Power: A Prescription for Long-Lasting Inner Peace, True Happiness and Unstoppable Success. Su is the president and founder of Beyond Horizon Coaching in Denville, New Jersey.

Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing peace and power in their stressful lives. She is a world-class mentor and evolutionary leader inspiring heart-centered, high-achieving women entrepreneurs. She will be speaking to an elite group of leaders and entrepreneurs at the invitation-only Leadership Luncheon on Feb. 7 and then delivering a keynote presentation titled “Claiming Your Peaceful Power” to all attendees in a general session on Feb. 8.

Su is a star in a new ground-breaking self-help film ”The Keeper of the Keys” with some of today’s most popular personal development gurus including Jack Canfield, Marci Shimoff and John Gray. The movie blends an entertaining fictional story line with unique expert segments.

For more information about “The Keeper of the Keys” movie, visit http://www.hueinasu.com/the-keeper-of-the-keys-movie.

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Hueina Su, MS, BSN, CEC, is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing peace and power in their stressful lives. Su is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, certified life coach, transformational leader of The Venus Evolution, and the best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others and the upcoming Peaceful Power: A Prescription for Long-Lasting Inner Peace, True Happiness and Unstoppable. She is on a mission to empower one million women nurturers to nurture themselves and create a life of their choice.

Su is the founder and president of Beyond Horizon Coaching, a global coaching and training company, specializing in providing solutions for mindful wellness, stress management, and women’s empowerment through personal coaching, executive coaching, teleseminars, keynote presentations, team-building training, and other wellness services. She is the creator of Rx for Balance (TM), The Coaching Oasis (TM), Nurture and Grow Rich (TM), The Venus Evolution (TM) and Mindful Wellness Coaching for Cancer Survivors programs.

Su is a co-star in an upcoming personal development movie “The Keeper of the Keys” with Jack Canfield, creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul® series and star of “The Secret” movie, Marci Shimoff, New York Times best-selling author of “Happy for No Reason” and star of “The Secret” movie, and John Gray, New York Times best-selling author of “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” and star of “The Secret”.

To sign up for free stress management video e-course and learn more about Su’s keynote speaking, coaching, training, consulting and products visit www.HueinaSu.com.

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Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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Dragon, Second Chance and One Decision


Happy Chinese New Year!! As I was reflecting last night, my heart was filled with JOY and gratitude for all the LOVE and riches in my life. My family enjoyed a great Chinese New Year’s Eve dinner together, and we called our parents, in-laws and relatives in Taiwan to wish them Happy Chinese New Year. What an amazing year 2011 has been, and I know I have so much to look forward to in 2012!!

Actually, we ALL do.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had lots of triumphs or rock bottom defeats last year, you’ve been given a second chance today to start anew. It doesn’t matter if you have not started your 2012 on the right track, or, you might be falling off the wagon in terms of your New Year’s Resolutions. You’ve been given a second chance today.

Why? You see, today is Chinese New Year’s Day, the beginning of Year 4710. And it’s not just any Chinese New Year, either. This is the Year of the Dragon, one of the most powerful in the Chinese Zodiac. This is one of the reasons I LOVE my culture, because Chinese New Year always comes after the “regular” New Year. That means, I’ll always get a second chance to re-start my New Year. :) And now that you know this, YOU are given a second chance today too!

Where do you start? You start by making ONE DECISION. In The Keeper of the Keys movie, I talked about the ONE DECISION that saved my life. It was truly a pivotal moment that changed my life forever, and I still remember that moment of awakening so vividly after twenty years. I was in my twenties and just moved from Asia to US, far away from all my friends and families. Back then, I had very low self-esteem and as a result my relationships with men were a string of disasters. I kept attracting guys who didn’t love or appreciate me for who I was, and I kept bending backwards for them, trying to earn their love and approval. After 3 guys IN A ROW cheated on me, I completely fell apart! All the childhood emotional trauma came back and I fell into the deep abyss of depression. For months I was on the brink of suicide, until one morning I woke up. I mean I REALLY woke up and got angry! I realized that those men were not worthy of my love and I deserve so much more! That morning I made ONE DECISION: If nobody in the world will love me, I will love myself. If I can’t fit in or blend in anywhere, I will stand out and be who I am. If I were to have any chance at success or happiness, I must learn to believe in myself and do it MY WAY.

That ONE DECISION saved my life and turned my life around.

Now it’s YOUR turn: What is the one thing you’d like to change this year that will make the MOST difference in your life? And what is the ONE DECISION you have to make in order to achieve that?

My invitation is for you to make that ONE DECISION today. Declare it right here, right now by leaving a comment on this post. Say it loud and clear for the whole world to hear. It’s your declaration to the Universe!!

To support you, I’m going to give away TWO prizes!! The first prize is a one-hour telephone coaching session with me (the coaching session is valued at $400, and your transformation from coaching is PRICELESS), and the second prize is an AUTOGRAPHED DVD of my new movie The Keeper of the Keys, which I co-star with Jack Canfield, Marci Shimoff and John Gray. You will learn how to master the 7 keys that can change your life, and have a good laugh (serious) along the way! You’ll probably cry when you watch my segment, so have your Kleenex ready. You’ve been warned. By the way, the DVDs are ready for order on my website. Order now so you can receive the special discounted price, plus there are some special bundles to choose from. As soon as I receive them (should be in a week or so), I will be able to ship them to you. :)

OK, how do you win the prizes? By entering the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE! It’s really easy. All you have to do is fill out a simple entry survey telling me what is the one thing you want to change/achieve this year, what is the ONE DECISION you need to make in order to achieve it, 3 reasons you want to achieve it, and 3 reasons why you think coaching with me will help you achieve your goal (psst, this is the part where you need to WOW me).

That’s the gist of it. Simply fill out the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE entry survey BEFORE 5PM EST on January 31, and you will be entered into the contest. I will personally read every single entry, and choose the best response as the winner. By completing the entry survey, you will come away as a WINNER whether you win the challenge or not. Because of the way I designed this entry survey, if nothing else, you will gain valuable clarity and resolution for achieving your goal. That alone could make or break your goal, so it’s PRICELESS!

So go ahead and take the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE entry survey now.

If the link does not work, simply copy & paste this URL to your web browser: www.surveymonkey.com/s/GJSYNPZ

May the Year of the Dragon bring you much Peace, Power & Prosperity! I look forward to reading your ONE DECISION CHALLENGE entries and comments on my blog. Good Luck!!

Peace & Joy,
Hueina

P.S. You can now order your AUTOGRAPHED “The Keeper of the Keys” movie DVDs on my website here: http://www.HueinaSu.com/the-keeper-of-the-keys-movie

P.P.S. Don’t forget to enter the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE to win TWO amazing prizes!! (Hurry before 1/31) http://www.hueinasu.com/one-decision-challenge

About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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Watch This Video ASAP If You Are a Heart-Centered High-Achieving Woman

Watch this video ASAP if you are a Heart-Centered, High-Achieving woman.

Are you a V.E.N.U.S. Woman?

You are a heart-centered, exceptional, driven, successful high-achiever. You have overcome many challenges in life, and came out victorious. You have a big heart and true desire to help others. You are passionate, purposeful and love to inspire others. You feel called to make a difference and leave a legacy in the world. If you say yes to any of the above, you are a V.E.N.U.S. woman!

V.E.N.U.S. Women are…
Victorious courageous, resilient, powerful
Exceptional high-achieving, driven, successful
Nurturing heart-centered, compassionate, altruistic
Unique dare to be different, authentic, out-of-the-box
Spirited passionate, purposeful, inspirational

However, sometimes you feel like a square peg in a round hole because you are so unique, creative and out-of-the-box. Sometimes you might feel stressed, overwhelmed, second-guess or under-value yourself (or your service). Sometimes you might even flat-out feel like a failure or an impostor!

If you’ve ever felt like any of the above, you’re in the right place!

It’s Time to Reclaim the Peaceful, Powerful & Beautiful You! so you will have more confidence, joy and success in whatever you do! Join me and 19 other world-class mentors, visionaries and experts in personal development, spirituality and business at The Venus Evolution Global Telesummit, a FREE online teleseminar series for heart-centered, high-achieving women just like you!

Our amazing speaker lineup includes Maryam Webster, Marci Shimoff, Bernie Siegel M.D., Andrea J. Lee, Christine Kloser, Maria Gamb, Ellen Britt, Adela Rubio, Ariane De Bonvoisin, Cari Murphy, Rachael Jayne Groover, Marlise Karlin, Lorraine Cohen, Ken Stone, Angela Johnson, Lisa Walker, Lorraine Maita M.D., Robin Jay and Hueina Su.

There is NO COST to attend. You will have access to the replay if you cannot make the live calls.

The Venus Evolution Global Telesummit starts tomorrow November 7th. Reserve your FREE seat now: www.TheVenusEvolution.com

About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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[June News] Gold Medals, Movie with Jack Canfield & John Gray, Keynote in Taiwan and Aligning Your Soul Purpose

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May was such a busy and AMAZING month for me. For the first time ever, I went away for a women’s retreat on Mother’s Day weekend (yup, by myself). It was actually my hubby’s unusual Mother’s Day gift for me. Yoga, walks by the lake, meditation at the labyrinth, spiritual drawing workshop, Reiki, and African drumming by the campfire. I loved my time away, and came home in time for Mother’s Day dinner with my family!

The following weekend, I was the guest lecturer at the New Age Health Spa in Neversink, NY (don’t you just LOVE the name of the town?!!) I gave two lectures: “Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul” and “The Venus Evolution”. Again, an absolutely delicious, soul-nurturing weekend in nature. Totally UNPLUGGED (no Internet or cell signal up there). I especially loved quiet time in the yoga center, meditating in front of a MAGNIFICENT, GORGEOUS golden sitting Buddha. And, of course, having the hot tub all to myself, overlooking the field through glass walls was heavenly too! Oh, I LOVE opportunities to combine work and fun like this!!! :)

Wish you were there too? Guess what? You can JOIN ME in September (9/23-9/25) as I will be the featured lecturer at the New Age Health Spa again. Please mark your calendar and stay tuned for more details.

After the spa lectures, I spoke at the Holistic Moms Network, sharing with a roomful of moms on how to Claim Your Peaceful Power for long lasting inner peace, happiness, self-confidence and success. There were a few cute little kids in the audience too! It seemed like yesterday when my kids were THAT little. I loved inspiring those moms with young children, as I know how important moms are at instilling values, beliefs and self-esteem in their children, and what kind of lifelong effects stay with a person WAY into adulthood.

The exciting finale of May was that my kids (15-year-old daughter and 13-year-old son) and I competed in the New Jersey International Wushu-Kungfu Tournament on 5/29/11, which happened to be my dear hubby’s 45th birthday. :) We started Wushu training early last year, and competed at this tournament last May too (my daughter won silver and I won gold for our beginner-level Long Fist form). This year, the three of us competed in both the Long Fist form and Long Staff form competition. We even ordered traditional Chinese Wushu uniforms for the tournament. There were 20 students (I was one of only 2 adults) from our school competing at the tournament. It was a BLAST!! My daughter won a silver and a bronze, and I won 2 gold medals!! My son didn’t medal this time, but, he did very well and I’m very proud of him too!! Over the years, I have competed and won gold medals at state, regional and international martial arts championships. That was my #9 and #10 gold medals, and I am very proud of myself!! :)

There are other exciting new projects in the works. This August I’m invited to be a keynote speaker at the 2011 Taiwan Joint Conference in Health Care, a major medical conference in Taipei, Taiwan. I will be presenting Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul to 700-800 medical doctors and hospital administrators. This is my first INTERNATIONAL KEYNOTE speaking engagement, so I’m very excited!! If you know I have a background in nursing and Taiwan is my home country, you’ll also understand why it means SO much to me to return to Taiwan to speak at a major medical conference like this. :) They have booked my airline tickets and a beautiful suite for me in Taipei. I’ve arranged for the conference to invite my father, who is also a medical doctor, to attend my keynote as my guest. Oh I can’t wait!!

Perhaps the MOST EXCITING NEWS of all (yes I’m saving the best for last. DRUM ROLL PLEASE) — I’m invited to be a featured expert in a new personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys, starring Jack Canfield, John Gray and Marci Shimoff. I’m a HUGE fan of all three of them, so, needless to say, I am over-the-moon excited and SO deeply honored to be in the same movie with them!!! ♥ Scott Cervine, who recently directed The Shadow Effect movie (starring Deepak Chopra, Debbie Ford and Marianne Williamson) is the director of The Keeper of The Keys. The same company that handled the international distribution of The Secret movie will be distributing this movie. Can you imagine just how phenomenal this movie will be?!!! Yesterday we had a conference call with director Scott Cervine and the movie producer, and I love how Scott will be filming the movie. Next weekend I’ll be flying to Las Vegas to film my part in the movie. I promise I will keep you posted for sure.

Last but not least — Don’t forget to sign up for the F*R*E*E teleseminar I’m hosting next Tuesday! I’m interviewing my good friend Jennifer Longmore, North America’s Soul Purpose Expert. She will share the 9 most powerful questions to help you align your soul’s purpose. It’s a call you won’t want to miss! (read all the details below)

It’s been an extremely hot week here in NJ. My children’s schools were closed early yesterday due to excessive heat. I hope you’re staying cool and healthy, wherever you are!

Happy Weekend!

Peace & Joy,

Hueina

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Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing peace and power in their stressful lives. As a featured expert in the upcoming movie The Keeper of the Keys starring Jack Canfield, John Gray and Marci Shimoff, what sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She is a Mindful Wellness Expert, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, certified life coach, keynote speaker, and founder of Beyond Horizon Coaching.

Hueina started her first career as a registered nurse, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women nurturers to nurture themselves and create a life of their choice.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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Are You Frozen in Fear in the Face of Change?

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When fear grabs you by your throat, your emotions hijack your mind, all reasoning is out the window, will you hang on to the cliff for your dear life (and eventually fall to your demise), or will you take the leap and SOAR?

Lately it seems like everywhere I go, everyone I talk to is facing some kind of change or transition, and the predominant feeling, whether explicitly expressed or not, is FEAR. In the last week alone, I’ve spoken to business owners trying to survive recession, professionals in career transitions, a doctor facing a hospital merger, breast cancer survivors trying to adapt to “the new normal”, a movie producer embarking on her new movie production, and a few business women trying to decide whether to invest in coaching and training, etc. The common thread is, everyone is facing some kind of change and the unknown. Old chapters are closing, old relationships and security are fading into history, while new opportunities and challenges are rising on the horizon, with uncharted paths waiting to be explored. While a few are excited about the new chapters and promises in their life and/or business, most of them are filled with SO much anxiety about the impeding changes and transitions. They are stressed, overwhelmed, fearful of an unknown future, afraid of making mistakes, stuck in analysis paralysis, worried excessively about the worst-case scenarios, losing sleep, and about to snap. Some told me flat-out that they are frozen in fear — unable to make any decisions or take any actions, feeling scared, stuck, confused, desperate, powerless and even hopeless. They feel like they are standing at the edge of a cliff, and any mis-step, even a tiny one, could result in falling to a horrible death. So, they just stand there, unable to breathe, unable to move.

Does this sound familiar? Are you holding your breath reading this? OK, take a D-E-E-P breath in and let it ALL out.

I know that hold-your-breath-until-your-face-turns-blue feeling, because I’ve been there many times myself. Now, I consider myself a veteran of change, and have thrived in many dramatic changes and challenges in my life, such as moving from Asia to the U.S. in my twenties (speaking little English and knowing almost no one here); transitioning and thriving in many industries and professions; coping with my husband’s job loss when he was the sole bread-winner and we had a house and 2 kids under age 4; starting my own business when I had no clue what I was doing; moving and living in 4 states in 6 calendar years (with two babies in tow); transforming myself from a painfully shy, insecure, suicidal young girl to an international keynote speaker and best-selling author; winning my Black Belt and 8 gold medals despite my injuries and fears; recovering from various illnesses, surgeries and a breast cancer scare a few years ago. I can go on and on…..

You get the picture. I’ve been through A LOT of changes and I’m REALLY good at adapting and thriving in change. But, I’m not immune to fear, either. In fact, I’ve had many frozen-in-fear, scared-to-death, on-my-knees moments. Probably more so than many people.

Change is definitely in the air. Buddha said, “The only constant in life is change.” There’s no escaping from it whether you’re royalty or a mere mortal. So, the question is, how well can you deal with change? And what do you do when you are frozen in fear?

By the way, this is exactly what we will discuss in my upcoming women’s inspiration and self-mastery group The V.E.N.U.S. Circle meeting THIS Friday May 6th at 12:00-2:00 PM. We will discuss the 4 C’s for Riding the Waves of Change. All details here: http://www.hueinasu.com/venus-circle RSVP required.

When you are faced with change, you need to be able to think clearly, make the right decisions, and take swift actions. Problem is, when fear grabs you by your throat and your emotions hijack your mind, all reasoning is out the window. Your ability to think clearly and act accordingly might be diminished to ZERO. Like the person standing, or even worse, HANGING, at the edge of the cliff, you are frozen in fear, unable to think or move.

In one of the Indiana Jones movies, Indiana Jones had to cross a canyon to retrieve the Holy Grail to save his father. However, when they arrived at the top of the canyon, there was no bridge or any pathway across the canyon. The ancient scripture showed a man crossing the canyon, seemingly floating in mid-air. Time is running out for his father, and he couldn’t find another transportation to cross the canyon. At that moment, he had to go on faith, and faith alone. He had to make a DECISION and trust. So, even though he was scared, as any normal human being would at the edge of a deep gorge, Indiana Jones closed his eyes, and took a step into the air. Surprisingly, he didn’t fall to the bottom of the canyon. Instead, he landed on a narrow rock bridge that was totally invisible before. He safely traveled on this rock bridge across the canyon and saved his father at the end.

Sometimes when you are overcome by fear, you can’t see the path to safety and success. All you can see, all you focus on, is the risks and danger. You keep thinking about the worse-case scenarios. Like the cliff-hanger, you just want to hang on to what you know (or so you thought) to be safe with a death grip (pun intended), not knowing the “path to safety” might be just a step away. The famous psychologist Abraham Maslow wrote, “You will either step forward into growth or backward into safety.” Ironically, what you perceive to be safe (i.e. hanging on to the cliff), might ultimately lead to your demise. You can take a step in faith, find an alternative path, or, you can insist on hanging on to the edge of the cliff until you can no longer hold on. And then what?

Know that change is inevitable and there’s always a risk involved whether you choose to move forward or not. The Chinese word “crisis” consists of two characters: “risk” and “opportunity”. The bigger the crisis, the greater the risk, and the greater the opportunity too. I was reminded of this lesson recently when I almost decided to turn down possibly the greatest opportunity (so far) for my business. I was focusing on what I perceive as a crisis because of the great risk involved in this project, and as a result, I was very anxious, overwhelmed and unable to make a decision. I was frozen in fear, until I talked with my coach, who reminded me to keep my eyes on the possibility and opportunity the change (project) will bring, instead of the risks and dangers involved. It was like a heavy boulder lifted off my chest and I can finally breathe and think again. Sometimes when you are so deep in anxiety and fear, you really need someone who can see objectively and clearly to point out the right thinking and right direction for you. A professional coach can do just that for you.

As the famous quote by John Burroughs goes, “Leap and the net will appear.” Learn to trust yourself and have faith in the Universe. Know that you live in a loving Universe. If you are following your heart, aligned with your passion and purpose, the Universe will conspire to support you. When you leap in faith, the net will appear, or you might find out that you’ve been wearing a parachute on your back all along. But, you’ll never know until you take the leap. Remember the cliff-hanger — the longer you wait, the less options you’ll have, and the higher risks for you. So, make a DECISION and take ACTION now.

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About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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