How to Find Peace When You Feel Out of Control

There are times when you feel like your life is going against your best intention or planning, and you are losing control. It’s easy to feel anxiety, fear, self-doubt, anger and other strong emotions. How do you find inner peace when many things seem to be out of your control? That’s the lesson I’ve been learning this past week – from an unexpected cold that felt like the flu, teenage driver and a school bomb threat.

Early last week, my daughter came home from school, sick as a dog. She is usually very healthy, so this was unusual for her. The weather has been very unstable recently, and colds and flu are going around. As a seasoned Dr. Mom, I immediately whipped out all my powerful healing tools, including Young Living Essential Oils and ZeroPoint bio-energetic lasers and intention stones to help her balance and reset her bio-energetic system, boost her immunity, and lesson her discomfort (I’ll share about these AMAZING healing tools with you in the near future). She fell asleep in the middle of the bio-energetic reset protocol, and after a few hours of deep sleep, woke up feeling MUCH better.

Meanwhile, I myself was feeling a little bit under the weather that day. After tending to my daughter, I started to go down the hill, FAST. Care-giving is very straining, physically and emotionally, as I had experienced and shared in my book Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul. Still, I was fighting the cold with every ounce of my strength and will. I did NOT want to get sick at all. I did all the holistic and bio-energetic healing protocols that I used on my daughter, but, I was not feeling better.

I was dragging myself for about two days, trying to get things done in my business and around the house. I couldn’t control my body, which frustrated me big time. At the same time, I was beating myself up for getting sick and losing precious time. I got frustrated and angry that those healing tools did not work as effective this time. The worked wonders before. So, what’s wrong with ME? My “Evil Stepsister” chimed in: “What a disgrace! You’re an expert in self-care and mindful wellness. How can you get sick?! What will other people think when they find out?!” And my “Evil Stepmother” called me lazy, when I decided not to send out my e-zine last Friday. I was like, “WHOA, time out! I’m not lazy! I’m not feeling well and I deserve to rest.”

It finally dawned on me that I was resisting the reality, instead of being in the present moment and accepting “what is”. What you resist, persists. I was fighting with the reality that I had a bad cold and I needed (and deserved) to rest. In addition, the false belief that “I shouldn’t get sick at all” robbed my inner peace and created more stress in my physical and emotional body. No wonder none of those healing tools worked. No wonder I wasn’t getting better.

The reality is, I’m ill, and it’s OK to be ill from time to time. I’m only human, and this is part of the human experience. When I finally accepted what is without judgment, I told my Evil Stepmother and Stepsister to shut up, closed my office and allowed myself to rest as much as I could. My body responded and began to heal. It’s taken longer than I thought, and I’ve learned that you can’t rush healing. Everyone’s body is different. I’m learning to be more patient and kind to myself.

The second lesson came last weekend, when my daughter finished her 6-hour driving lessons and got her driving permit. I don’t know where “teenage driver” ranks on the top 10 stress and anxiety list, but I’m guessing it’s pretty high for any parent. She was over-the-moon excited and ready to get on the road, but, I was far from ready. My husband is braver than I am. He took her out driving around town the next day, and even let her drive him to school (only 2 blocks from home) on Monday. Both the driving instructor and my husband said that she did a great job, although I was still skeptical. In my mind, she is still my little baby girl. She only has 6 hours of lesson. Can she really drive on the road? Shouldn’t we be practicing in an empty parking lot (for a few months) first?

The next day, I was going to pick up my son from school when she enthusiastically asked, “Mommy, can I drive?” My first reaction was, “You want to drive my minivan? Are you sure? It’s much bigger than daddy’s car.” I wanted to say no, but, knowing that it was my fear talking, I decided to say yes instead. How will she be able to learn and get good at driving, if I don’t give her a chance? Here’s an opportunity for me to check what she has learned and teach her what I know. So, we got on the road, as I tried as hard as I could to look calm and relaxed. The worst thing I could do was to make her nervous by being a nervous wreck myself. To my surprise, even though she was brand new to driving, she had a fairly stable handle on the steering wheel, and she was being very careful. I’ve seen some new drivers who are much more nervous and unstable than she is. We drove all the way to school, picked up my son, and to my surprise, I offered for her to drive all of us to the grocery store too, which is on the opposite side of the town.

When we got home safely from the grocery store, she happily exclaimed, “YAY! We are ALIVE!” and I replied “Hallelujah!!” and we all laughed. Apparently she needs a lot more practice on braking and gauging the distance for turning, changing lanes, etc. but she will get better with time and practice, and I can help her with that. As long as my husband or I stay in the car with her, I think she can do well and stay safe. Come September she will get her full drivers license, and she won’t need us to drive with her. The thought of her driving somewhere without us or any grownup supervision is still nerve-wrecking for me, but, I’m going to take it one step at a time. Right now, there’s still a lot I can do to help her get ready. So when that day comes, and she goes out without me, hopefully she will remember what I’ve taught her and know what to do to keep herself safe.

As if a teenage driver is not nerve-wrecking enough, my 3rd lesson came yesterday, when I got a voicemail from the superintendent of my son’s school district that my son’s middle school was in lockdown. Half an hour later, the 2nd voicemail came, saying the lockdown was over, police just left and the kids were going to lunch. There was no explanation of WHY the school was locked down and I was visiting a Buddhist/Taoist temple in New York City when this happened, which means it would’ve taken me a few hours before I could get to my son’s school. As it turned out, the school was locked down due to a bomb threat!! In fact, they received 2 bomb threats 2 days in a row. Talk about nerve-wrecking!! Fortunately, all is well, and the police will be monitoring the campus for the next couple of weeks.

As I shared this incident on Facebook, I found out from one of my co-stars in “The Keeper of the Keys” movie Laura Carpenter-Vobornik that her daughters go to Chardon High School where the shootings shocked the nation on February 27 (fortunately her daughters are safe). The severity of the bomb threat in my son’s school slowed sunk in. It was so surreal to think that something so terrible could happen in your child’s school, and yet, I realized that we are all vulnerable to random violence, accidents and unspeakable tragedies like the Chardon shootings. In my case, there were several blessings, though. First and foremost, the bomb threat was a false alarm. Second, I somehow didn’t hear the first call, so, I got both voicemail messages at the same time (after the lockdown was over). If I had gotten the first message right away, I would’ve freaked out!! Last but not least, because I was at the temple, I was able to pray to the Tao/Buddha and surrender my fears to him. That made a huge difference! Even though I didn’t know the details about the lockdown, I got the peace of mind knowing that he is safe and all is well.

The next morning after he went to school, I got that panic feeling again, worrying whether they will have another bomb threat or lockdown. Again, I had to spend extra time in meditation and surrender to the Divine.

This, I realized, is a process I’ll need to repeat, over and over.

So, how do you find peace when you feel out of control? I hope you take away a few lessons from my story:

1. Accept what is without judgment. It’s no use to argue, deny or reject the reality. Resisting it will only create more resistance, stress, anxiety, anger or destructive behaviors. Blaming yourself or others will not help, either.

2. You can’t rush things. Everything works on divine timing, not on your schedule. Sometimes despite your best efforts, you don’t seem to get anywhere. But, if you stick to it a little longer, you’ll have a breakthrough or another door will open. Learn to be patient and trust the process.

3. Do your best and surrender the rest. You can only do your best. When things are not going according to your plan, and you are feeling out of control, know that there is a higher purpose in everything. Learn to trust that everything is in divine order and things will work out for your highest good, even when it appears the opposite.

4. Be patient and kind to yourself. Beating yourself up does not help the situation. If you’re not feeling well, do whatever you need to heal yourself. By all means, take a nap if you need to. Take your time. Your health is the top priority for your own well-being and your long-term success. Remember, you are irreplaceable!

About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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Red Balloon and a Message from Kwan Yin The Goddess of Compassion

There are encounters in life that you know, in the core of your being, are more than coincidental. There are connections that you know last more than a lifetime.

She has always been a part of my life, for as long as I could remember, at least for this lifetime. But, it wasn’t until recently that I’m realizing, slowly, her significance to me. Last night, I got to meet her “live” for the first time, and my heart was filled with so much love, peace, joy and gratitude. All day long today, I’m in this elevated vibration and I feel like a part of me is still somewhere “out there” with her.

I’m referring to Kwan Yin, the Goddess of Compassion, a revered Buddhist Goddess from China.

Actually, I’ve met her before, although last night was my first time meeting her through someone who can channel her. Born and raised in Taiwan, I’m no stranger to Kwan Yin. My parents have a beautiful white ceramic Kwan Yin statue as well as a sculpted jade mural of her on our family altar. For as long as I could remember, every morning and night, in addition to all major holidays, we would say our prayers to Buddha, Kwan Yin, other gods and our ancestors. Interestingly, Kwan Yin was (and still is) the main god on our family altar, where Buddha (more specifically, there are 2 Laughing Buddhas) took the “second seat”. Come to think of it, that’s quite interesting. Perhaps I should ask my parents why.

Kwan Yin is the female form of the Buddhist Bodhisattva Avalokitasvara. In China and Taiwan, she is said to be the protector of fishermen and practically anyone who would call for her. She voluntarily gave up her own enlightenment until she could ease all suffering in the world. The name Kwan Yin (or Guanyin) is short for Guanshiyin (觀世音) in Chinese, which literally means “Observing the Sounds (or Cries) of the World.”

To me, Kwan Yin is so peaceful and beautiful. Even as a child, I was drawn to her peaceful presence. And, anyone who has 1,000 eyes and 1,000 arms, rides a dragon, and can help everyone all at once, is definitely powerful. Hey, I guess it’s no coincidence why I came up with “Reclaiming the Peaceful, Powerful & Beautiful You” as the theme of The Venus Evolution Global Telesummit last year! :)

Growing up, Kwan Yin was a part of my everyday life, and I’ve always loved her, but after I moved away from home, I kind of lost touch with her. I didn’t feel particularly close to her until last year. When I took a class about White Tara, the Goddess of Compassion in Tibetan Buddhism, I learned that she is one and the same as Kwan Yin in Chinese Buddhism. When I read a particular story about Tara, it dawned on me why I was so drawn to her.

“In this tale there is a young princess who lives in a different world system, millions of years in the past. Her name is Yeshe Dawa, which means ‘Moon of Primordial Awareness’. For quite a number of aeons she makes offerings to the Buddha of that world system, whose name was Tonyo Drupa. She receives special instruction from him concerning bodhicitta — the heart-mind of a bodhisattva. After doing this, some monks approach her and suggest that because of her level of attainment she should next pray to be reborn as a male to progress further. At this point she lets the monks know in no uncertain terms that from the point of view of Enlightenment it is only ‘weak minded worldlings’ who see gender as a barrier to attaining enlightenment. She sadly notes there have been few who wish to work for the welfare of beings in a female form, though. Therefore she resolves to always be reborn as a female bodhisattva, until samsara is no more. She then stays in a palace in a state of meditation for some ten million years, and the power of this practice releases tens of millions of beings from suffering. As a result of this, Tonyo Drupa tells her she will henceforth manifest supreme bodhi as the Goddess Tārā in many world systems to come.”

With this story in mind, it is interesting to read a quotation from the Dalai Lama about Tārā, spoken at a conference on Compassionate Action in Newport Beach, CA in 1989:

“There is a true feminist movement in Buddhism that relates to the goddess Tārā. Following her cultivation of bodhicitta, the bodhisattva’s motivation, she looked upon the situation of those striving towards full awakening and she felt that there were too few people who attained Buddhahood as women. So she vowed, “I have developed bodhicitta as a woman. For all my lifetimes along the path I vow to be born as a woman, and in my final lifetime when I attain Buddhahood, then, too, I will be a woman.”

When I read that story, I got so emotional and couldn’t stop crying. Somehow I realized, at that moment, that I too had signed a similar soul contract to be a woman for all my lifetimes. Since then, I became fascinated with Kwan Yin and actively sought connection with her. After twenty some years, we were reunited at last.

So, you can imagine how excited I was, when I (quite accidentally) came across this event called “An Evening with Kwan Yin.” Somehow I felt compelled to be there. I had to reschedule a radio interview and some other engagements, so I could free up the entire evening for this meeting. I dug up the jade Kwan Yin necklace that my mom gave me years ago, and put on a beautiful Chinese blouse. As I was getting ready to go, I thought of a lovely book I’ve read about Kwan Yin’s teaching that’s entirely channeled by someone in deep hypnosis. I wondered if she would sound like Kwan Yin in that book. I was excited and a little nervous at the same time.

The meeting was in the basement of a small gift shop called Blu Lotus. When I walked in the door, the first thing I noticed was 3 Kwan Yin statues on a small table facing the entrance, and guess what, I have one of the same statues at home. “There you are,” I thought to myself, “I’m at the right place.” In the small basement, there were about a dozen women gathered in a circle, and Christine, the spiritual teacher, showed us the crystal skulls, which she said Kwan Yin had asked her to bring to this session. Feeling like I was the only one who was clueless, I asked her about the significance of these skulls. She quickly handed the largest one to me, saying “Here, I think you should hold this one.” It’s Kwan Yin’s Lapis Lazuli skull, Isis. Holding the skull, I wasn’t sure what to do. I wish I could tell you that I felt or heard something, but I didn’t. Oh well. Maybe next time.

Christine explained to us what would happen in a channeling session, and asked us to be respectful when Kwan Yin arrives. Then she crossed her legs and bowed her head down in meditation. About 5 minutes later she slowly raised her head and began to speak. Her demeanor and voice changed. Kwan Yin was very soft-spoken and at first I could barely hear her, especially because someone else was talking and laughing in the next room. I pleaded, silently, “Please Kwan Yin, let me hear you.” Luckily, after a short while, those ladies finished their meeting and left. We could finally focus on Kwan Yin’s teaching. Still, her voice was so soft and low that I was struggling to hear her words. Honestly, I don’t remember everything she said. Her voice kind of put me in a trance, and maybe she did that on purpose. Either that, or my short-term memory was not working so well. Haha!

What I do remember is that we need to cultivate the “heart consciousness”, i.e. shifting from our head to our heart. Kwan Yin said that we spend way too much time in our head, and don’t trust our own heart and our intuition. She put a silk lotus flower over her heart and told us to open our heart like the lotus flower. She stressed the importance of love and compassion — both for others and for ourselves. Actually, she said many times to love yourself, trust yourself and listen to your heart. I chuckled as she said that she doesn’t understand our modern world, which is so different from the 14th century when she lived on earth. She talked about the “iron horse” we drive and the rectangular box with pictures and sound that everybody is so obsessed with. The Goddess has a great sense of humor. She instructed us to live in the present moment, because that’s the only moment that’s real. Release the guilt and shame from the past that no longer serve us. She told us that each one of us was called there, because we were pure-hearted. All of us are on the right path. We need to have faith and trust ourselves.

When I got home, I was tired but felt much lighter. I remember when I walked in the door, I saw the red heart-shaped balloon that my chiropractor gave me floating in the corner of our living room. However, when I finally got in bed, I was surprised to see the red balloon floating next to my dresser, on my side of the bed. My first reaction was, “Did somebody move the balloon?” but everybody was already asleep at that point. Then I smiled as I thought about the “heart consciousness” Kwan Yin taught us. As I gazed at the balloon I said “Thank you Kwan Yin, I got it. Thanks for the reminder!” All of a sudden, the red balloon floated about a foot toward me and then sank ALL the way to the floor. I couldn’t believe my eyes! My first gut feeling was, “ground yourself in love.” OK that’s really COOL. Obviously she knows I’m totally a visual person so she decided to SHOW me her message.

My happiness was short-lived, however, as a sense of panic took over. What if it meant “fallen love”? Did something bad happen to my parents?!!! I jumped out of bed and rushed to the phone in the kitchen. It was past midnight but I just HAD to call my parents in Taiwan. It actually took me many tries, before I reached BOTH of them. I’ll spare you the drama here. Luckily due to the time difference it was their lunch time, so at least I didn’t have to wake them up in the middle of the night. They were both safe and sound, although a bit surprised that I called at that hour. Feeling relieved, I went back to bed.

The next morning, I called Christine to thank her and told her about the balloon. I didn’t tell her what I thought at all, only what I saw. She said it’s such a beautiful message, that Kwan Yin wanted to bring my heart closer to me (and to her). She also thinks the balloon sinking to the floor meant “grounding.” I told her that’s what I thought at first, but then I got worried about my parents. Before I could tell her that I did find out my parents were fine, she immediately assured me it’s not about them, and that my first intuition was correct.

Isn’t it funny? Here I am being tested again, by the great Goddess herself, to listen to my heart and trust my intuition, which has been a lesson given to me, over and over, recently. Instead of trusting my first intuition, my ego mind rushed in with a huge dose of fear. How typical! I just have to laugh at myself. What a lesson! Hopefully, next time I’ll be able to discern better.

By the way, I tried to plop the balloon up in the air, but, it decidedly wouldn’t float up again. I’ll remember the message, nonetheless.

Trust your heart. Ground yourself in LOVE.

Thank you Kwan Yin!

About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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HERO or HERD?

The other day, my son forgot his alto saxophone and asked me to bring it to school for him. Since he doesn’t normally forget his stuff, I brought it to him. On my way home from school, the license plate on the car right in front of me caught my attention. In all capital letters the license plate reads “THEHERD.” Quickly I snapped a picture of it with my iPhone.

My first impression was “THE HERO“, and I thought to myself: How fitting…. Think about all the things we do as parents, every single day, for our children. While most are mundane and even trivial, some of the stuff we do are nothing short of heroic. We do it willingly, and we don’t need a medal or a fancy Batmobile, either. I felt a deep sense of pride, thinking “I’m a SHERO who drives a minivan.:)

When I got home and had a closer look at the picture, I realized that the license plate reads “THE HERD“, not “THE HERO.” The capital D looks like O from a distance. Haha! Obviously I could use a stronger prescription for my contact lens.

How abut you? What did you see at first glance? THE HERO or THE HERD?

Then it dawned on me that this was yet another “Message from the Universe” for me.

You see, I often receive signs and messages from the Universe through license plates, songs on the radio, animals, message from other people, etc. The messages are often timely and profound. Of course, the more I learn to pay attention, the more messages I receive.

In this case, I was thinking about writing an article on courage the night before, and there it was, right in front of me, “THE HERO” in big, bold capital letters!!

Of course, I know what you’re thinking: “But it says THE HERD, not THE HERO on the license plate! You read it wrong!”

Did I?

I believe that we have a way of seeing what our heart (or Soul, or the Universe) wants us to see, if we are being open and present enough. There’s no doubt in my mind why I was seeing THE HERO instead of THE HERD. For one, I’d rather be a HERO (or I should say SHERO) for my children, instead of someone who just herds them around town. I want to be someone who fiercely protects them, stands up for them, and be a good role model for them.

Same for my own life. I’d rather be a HERO on my own journey, blazing my own path, taking whatever risks to live my destiny. I’m no longer willing to keep my head down, silence my voice, compromise my values, conform to rules and expectations that are not aligned with my true self, or stay faceless, voiceless and powerless in a HERD on a beaten path leading AWAY from my soul’s purpose. You might think it’s safer to say in a HERD. There’s safety in numbers, right? Not necessarily.

Every time you do things that are against your values, every time you ignore that quiet whisper from the core of your being, or give up your voice and your self-respect, in order to play safe, to please others, to avoid being judged, rejected or ridiculed, you are giving up a small piece of your true self. You are slowly but surely killing your Soul. It is painful not knowing your purpose in life. It’s even MORE painful when you know, deep in your Soul, what your calling is, why you are here in this lifetime, yet for whatever reason you are denying it, turning away from it, standing by the sideline and not able to LIVE it.

I saw very clearly this kind of suffocating anxiety and soul-murdering angst in quite a few entries in my ONE DECISION Challenge in the past week. Most of them know their life purpose and why they want to achieve their goals. Their goals are all different and personal. However, when asked what’s keeping them from living their purpose and reaching their goals, their answers were awfully similar: Lack of courage, confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, self-discipline, accountability and/or know-how. I can totally relate, because just a few short years ago, I was there. Lost. Paralyzed by fears. Feeling powerless. Filled with anxiety, guilt, shame and self-loathing. Now I’m crystal clear why I’m here and I’m on the right path.

It takes tremendous courage to go after your dream, to stand up for what you believe, to speak your truth, to be a leader, or, just to be YOU. You might have a vision to inspire and serve a certain population, to make a change or a difference through your business. You might have a personal goal of creating a better life for yourself and your family. Maybe you wish to be a role model for your children, or for your parents to be proud of you. Or, maybe you just want to feel good in your own skin and finally be at peace with who you truly are.

No matter what your goal is, it requires you to muster up your courage and take a stand. It requires you to be the HERO on your own journey, instead of staying in the HERD. What do you stand for? Who/what will you fiercely protect and defend? What are you willing to invest (time, money, energy, hard work)? What are you willing to risk and sacrifice?

The more important question is: WHO will you be? THE HERO or THE HERD? It’s time for you to make a choice.

About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

©Hueina Su You may reprint this article in your blog or e-zine as long as the author by-line and website information remain intact.

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The Keeper of the Keys Movie DVDs Are Here!

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Michael Walden is having one bad day after another… and there is no end in sight. After losing his job and finding his house in foreclosure, he becomes increasingly negative and frustrated. It doesn’t help that his fiancee Anne, tired of his rants, breaks off their engagement. Depressed and discouraged, he falls asleep… and dreams.

Success coach Jack Canfield appears and tells Michael he is sending some friends, self-help experts Marci Shimoff, John Gray, Hueina Su, and 14 others, to help him to discover the keys and how to use them. Join Michael and his mysterious guide Elizabeth as they encounter a diverse of experts eager to enlighten him. Not since “A Christmas Carol” has a dream been this rich, this revealing or this much fun.

The Spiritual Cinema Circle has decided to feature The Keeper of the Keys in April 2012. Here’s what Stephen Simon, co-founder of The Spiritual Cinema Circle, said about The Keeper of the Keys:

“The Keeper of The Keys is the most innovative and entertaining film of its kind ever made. Wildly original, howlingly funny, fast-paced, and utterly delightful in every way, the film is truly a gift to the world. True to its ad copy, the film takes “the hell out of self-help” and is the new gold standard in its genre. When you see this movie, you will learn, laugh, and clap your hands with joy!”

Stephen Simon, Co-founder, The Spiritual Cinema Circle
Producer of Somewhere in Time, What Dreams May Come
Producer/Director of Conversations with God, Indigo

The movie DVDs are now available!!! Order your EXCLUSIVE **AUTOGRAPHED** copy of The “Keeper of the Keys” today!
www.hueinasu.com/the-keeper-of-the-keys-movie

Besides the SPECIAL priced movie DVD, there are also a few SPECIAL BUNDLES (DVD bundled with other products for a special price) to choose from. Only limited quantities are available so hurry and order your AUTOGRAPHED DVDs today!

The Keeper of the Keys movie DVD cover

About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

©Hueina Su You may reprint this article in your blog or e-zine as long as the author by-line and website information remain intact.

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Dragon, Second Chance and One Decision


Happy Chinese New Year!! As I was reflecting last night, my heart was filled with JOY and gratitude for all the LOVE and riches in my life. My family enjoyed a great Chinese New Year’s Eve dinner together, and we called our parents, in-laws and relatives in Taiwan to wish them Happy Chinese New Year. What an amazing year 2011 has been, and I know I have so much to look forward to in 2012!!

Actually, we ALL do.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had lots of triumphs or rock bottom defeats last year, you’ve been given a second chance today to start anew. It doesn’t matter if you have not started your 2012 on the right track, or, you might be falling off the wagon in terms of your New Year’s Resolutions. You’ve been given a second chance today.

Why? You see, today is Chinese New Year’s Day, the beginning of Year 4710. And it’s not just any Chinese New Year, either. This is the Year of the Dragon, one of the most powerful in the Chinese Zodiac. This is one of the reasons I LOVE my culture, because Chinese New Year always comes after the “regular” New Year. That means, I’ll always get a second chance to re-start my New Year. :) And now that you know this, YOU are given a second chance today too!

Where do you start? You start by making ONE DECISION. In The Keeper of the Keys movie, I talked about the ONE DECISION that saved my life. It was truly a pivotal moment that changed my life forever, and I still remember that moment of awakening so vividly after twenty years. I was in my twenties and just moved from Asia to US, far away from all my friends and families. Back then, I had very low self-esteem and as a result my relationships with men were a string of disasters. I kept attracting guys who didn’t love or appreciate me for who I was, and I kept bending backwards for them, trying to earn their love and approval. After 3 guys IN A ROW cheated on me, I completely fell apart! All the childhood emotional trauma came back and I fell into the deep abyss of depression. For months I was on the brink of suicide, until one morning I woke up. I mean I REALLY woke up and got angry! I realized that those men were not worthy of my love and I deserve so much more! That morning I made ONE DECISION: If nobody in the world will love me, I will love myself. If I can’t fit in or blend in anywhere, I will stand out and be who I am. If I were to have any chance at success or happiness, I must learn to believe in myself and do it MY WAY.

That ONE DECISION saved my life and turned my life around.

Now it’s YOUR turn: What is the one thing you’d like to change this year that will make the MOST difference in your life? And what is the ONE DECISION you have to make in order to achieve that?

My invitation is for you to make that ONE DECISION today. Declare it right here, right now by leaving a comment on this post. Say it loud and clear for the whole world to hear. It’s your declaration to the Universe!!

To support you, I’m going to give away TWO prizes!! The first prize is a one-hour telephone coaching session with me (the coaching session is valued at $400, and your transformation from coaching is PRICELESS), and the second prize is an AUTOGRAPHED DVD of my new movie The Keeper of the Keys, which I co-star with Jack Canfield, Marci Shimoff and John Gray. You will learn how to master the 7 keys that can change your life, and have a good laugh (serious) along the way! You’ll probably cry when you watch my segment, so have your Kleenex ready. You’ve been warned. By the way, the DVDs are ready for order on my website. Order now so you can receive the special discounted price, plus there are some special bundles to choose from. As soon as I receive them (should be in a week or so), I will be able to ship them to you. :)

OK, how do you win the prizes? By entering the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE! It’s really easy. All you have to do is fill out a simple entry survey telling me what is the one thing you want to change/achieve this year, what is the ONE DECISION you need to make in order to achieve it, 3 reasons you want to achieve it, and 3 reasons why you think coaching with me will help you achieve your goal (psst, this is the part where you need to WOW me).

That’s the gist of it. Simply fill out the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE entry survey BEFORE 5PM EST on January 31, and you will be entered into the contest. I will personally read every single entry, and choose the best response as the winner. By completing the entry survey, you will come away as a WINNER whether you win the challenge or not. Because of the way I designed this entry survey, if nothing else, you will gain valuable clarity and resolution for achieving your goal. That alone could make or break your goal, so it’s PRICELESS!

So go ahead and take the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE entry survey now.

If the link does not work, simply copy & paste this URL to your web browser: www.surveymonkey.com/s/GJSYNPZ

May the Year of the Dragon bring you much Peace, Power & Prosperity! I look forward to reading your ONE DECISION CHALLENGE entries and comments on my blog. Good Luck!!

Peace & Joy,
Hueina

P.S. You can now order your AUTOGRAPHED “The Keeper of the Keys” movie DVDs on my website here: http://www.HueinaSu.com/the-keeper-of-the-keys-movie

P.P.S. Don’t forget to enter the ONE DECISION CHALLENGE to win TWO amazing prizes!! (Hurry before 1/31) http://www.hueinasu.com/one-decision-challenge

About the Author:

Hueina Su is an internationally recognized expert in helping people find the missing PEACE and POWER in their stressful lives. She co-stars with Jack Canfield and Marci Shimoff in the ground-breaking personal development movie The Keeper of the Keys (Dec.11).

Hueina is a Mindful Wellness Expert, international keynote speaker, best-selling author of Intensive Care for the Nurturer’s Soul: 7 Keys to Nurture Yourself While Caring for Others, Founder & Master Coach of Beyond Horizon Coaching. What sets her apart from other experts is the 5,000 years of ancient Chinese culture and wisdom behind her. She started her first career as a RN, and has more than 23 years of experience in nursing, coaching, counseling, speaking, training, nonprofit management, sales, and small business. She is on a mission to empower one million women to nurture their true self, reclaim their Peaceful Power, and create a life of their CHOICE.

For more information about Hueina’s speaking, coaching and products, visit www.HueinaSu.com

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